Life Expectancy: 65 Years

Claud

An avid collector of your hopes and worries, a romantic at heart.

She thanks her fairies, for blessing her with people who know compassion down to an art.

For accepting her for who she is, who never fails to turn up,

in times of need as well as happiness, or just there for a loving hug.



Monday, May 17, 2010
all or nothing

This is not an all or nothing world.

Sometimes we fail to remember that when we are going through a difficult situation when it feels easier to give up and put in the effort.

I am against taking to reasons or explanations to justify situations just because they are convenient. From my limited experience, the truth is hardly convenient, but it is important - even if they make us uneasy.

This world is neither Black nor White. It's all painted in shades of greys and the rules only make it easier for us to discern the tones of darkness because we cannot imagine a world that is without.

What if we start thinking in terms of shades instead of colours? What may be considered 'right' can be taken for granted as what is 'wrong'. I personally think the Romantics got it right afterall....life cannot be logical all the time. Sometimes it must be lived through feeling and emotion. After all, that's what our limbic system is for. Who says that our neocortex (rational) is necessarily of a higher function than our limbic system?

I think many people will agree that love is an emotion that can lead one to do irrational things - sometimes good, sometimes devastating, but always willing.

If our neocortex is the higher function, then why do we value how we make other people feel, how we feel, or how people make us feel all the time? It's not so black and white now isn't it?

We study invest so much into rational principles simply because we cannot imagine the alternative - the irrational, the feeling and the lack of control. Personally, I have a tension between the rational and 'letting it go'....then again, life has proven that while we can look forward and plan....in reality, things may not always be in our hands.





Pisano can plan all he want...but then, shit can always happen.
( I like the juxtaposition of the rational principles of the Tower, and uncalled-leaning of it due to some screw-up in the soft ground....tension of opposites I guess)

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Yong Quan
Xinyi
Vanessa
ShangYi
Chengying
Tracey
Tarrant - poetry
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Compilations of digital art and art photography
Food blog/photography
XKCD - for a bit of off-beat intellectual humour and sarcasm
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F My Life...
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6 Billion Secrets
Tales of Romantic Dead Ends
Graphic books, graphic knowledge
The Older Dreamer


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