Life Expectancy: 65 Years
Claud
An avid collector of your hopes and worries, a romantic at heart.
She thanks her fairies, for blessing her with people who know compassion down to an art.
For accepting her for who she is, who never fails to turn up,
in times of need as well as happiness, or just there for a loving hug.
Friday, August 14, 2009
Reading more and reading less
There are some times, when words and actions have implicit meanings.
There are other times, when words and actions just mean what they mean.
I hope people can tell the difference during the right time, or clarify what they do not know.
Taking liberties by jumping into conclusions can undermine the message and what is being said. It strains both parties and it makes it very hard to go on from here.
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I have a person told me once that every friendship is special to him/her because each of her friends are different and he/she cannot bear to lose any one because each person brings a different type of joy in his/her life.
Everytime I think about the times when i've heard people say "all my friends are equal to me" or "i treat my friends equally" when they obviously don't, it is a little hypocritical. Instead of saying that all of friends are equal, when it's obviously not, then why don't u say, like what that person told me, that each friendship is special instead?
I don't know....i'm not gonna say that i treat all my friends the same because each of them are different and mean differently to me. If humankind is so diverse, how can we expect the relationships we make, to be equivocal?
Just a thought to catalogue. I want to put this behind me and move on to becoming more mature in how i approach relationships.
As what Jingteng might have told me: Cheerups! =)
Sometimes i think i'm too tense....HAHA...need to loosen up man
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