Life Expectancy: 65 Years

Claud

An avid collector of your hopes and worries, a romantic at heart.

She thanks her fairies, for blessing her with people who know compassion down to an art.

For accepting her for who she is, who never fails to turn up,

in times of need as well as happiness, or just there for a loving hug.



Wednesday, May 06, 2009
YESH!

IT'S OVER!

This childish-ridiculous-wayangish-immature hype is over. The meeting would have ended badly with my stupid uncle questioning my dad from the colour of his underpants to the depths of his integrity. I don't see why he has a right to do it. There was something that my father said that made me realised another thing. My dad said that my uncle opened the topic with the insurance money. He also told my dad that my mum's insurance should be used for her. My dad agreed, but he told him off and say, "if you use your sister's money in this way, i tell you less than 2 months it'll be wiped out. Then later what happens?"

I bled for my mum's hard-earned money. 

In any case, he has 1 standard for himself, and another standard for everybody else.

Even my aunt's husbands said that although they recognise that his concern for my mum is true, but he don't agree on all the actions he have taken and his ways of getting them done. 

But the good news despite all these trashing out, is that my uncle remains to show how stupid he is in front of his siblings and my uncles, and that my dad and i got what we wanted - to hold my uncle to his word and then move my mum to a better nursing home after that. We'll pay for the nursing home of course, but the fact that my mum has better care matters more to me than the cost itself. Afterwhich, my grandma will move in with one of my aunts and that's that.

I told my uncle off, why should he care about how we use the money as long as my mother is in good hands? Until the day my mother is sleeping on the streets, then should he come after us regarding the money. Arguing about something that hasn't happened is pointless and premature.

In any case, my aunt's husband have to stop my uncle and wrap up everything.

And yes, he actually bought a recorder for this occassion, it's new. Why? because it has a USB jack, and it's scratchless. Well, since he cannot be trusted, i don't see why he should trust anybody. In the mean time, we had our own recording as well.heh heh heh

OK! Case closed....moving on to how to take care of my mum. THAT, i can look forward to now.


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