Life Expectancy: 65 Years
Claud
An avid collector of your hopes and worries, a romantic at heart.
She thanks her fairies, for blessing her with people who know compassion down to an art.
For accepting her for who she is, who never fails to turn up,
in times of need as well as happiness, or just there for a loving hug.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Compromises must be made
After talking to nat, i've decided.
For my dad's relatives,their first and foremost priority is my father. For my mum's relatives, their first and foremost priority is my mother.
For me, both are important to me. I cannot give in one without upsetting the other. But i'm also unwilling to give up any control over my mother and to decide what is best for her.
So, i've decided to go along with my father's wishes and to make them sign a document stating that they will
1) Disclaim any interference with my mother's financial and medical affairs from hence thereof
2) Assume 100% responsibility should any complications arise from my mother's treatment as a result of this treatment.
3) To not interfere in the livelihood of my father and myself and to not spread false information with regards to my family.
If i can give in so much, i don't have anything else to lose. If they don't sign, they'll have something to hide in the first place and i still gain in the end.
It's a solid plan and i'm going to make them sign on it. Anyone can say and point fingers, but they're more careful when they know that the fingers they point, will point back to them.
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