Life Expectancy: 65 Years
Claud
An avid collector of your hopes and worries, a romantic at heart.
She thanks her fairies, for blessing her with people who know compassion down to an art.
For accepting her for who she is, who never fails to turn up,
in times of need as well as happiness, or just there for a loving hug.
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
The relatives have lost their fucking Rights
I remember George Carlin saying, all "rights" are not Rights because they are only "rights" when people say so. Come war and invasion, you no longer have these rights because the people up there decide not to give them to you. So..."all rights are temporary privileges".
I have been blinded by consideration for the (may i just use quotation marks for the last time again)"care for my relatives' feelings" that i put them first before my dad and i.
This will stop.
I told my mum's doctor and nurses to not disclose any information about my mum, and to not entertain them if they ask questions. I've asked them to refer back to us. I will deal with their questions and answers...i will choose who and when to deal with them.
I cannot stop them from showing physical concern like being physically there from my mum. But i can and will barricade them from knowing anything else about my mum.
My mum's side relatives have just lost all their temporary privileges.
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