Life Expectancy: 65 Years
Claud
An avid collector of your hopes and worries, a romantic at heart.
She thanks her fairies, for blessing her with people who know compassion down to an art.
For accepting her for who she is, who never fails to turn up,
in times of need as well as happiness, or just there for a loving hug.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
I hate relatives.
I really don't like to kick up a big fuss over things. I don't like to look down on people. But tonight, after hearing what my dad said, i'm going to do both.
And i thought that after my uncle has left, the dust will settle. Now, he has an advocate.
My mum's cousin. gosh...she's not even close to my mum and she's not even close to us. BUT! She's close to my uncle.
My mum's cousin talked to my dad tonight while i was having yoga. She told my dad to put my mum at home instead of a nursing home. And accused me of doing nothing but play my computer all day long beside my mum's bed. And accused the both of us that, quoting her, "we're not giving enough love to her. the love she deserves. you must be like do good things for God...etc" and even went as far to suggest that i should drop out of university because, quoting her again, "university so important meh? Study so important meh?then her mother not important la?!"
Before we enter the bitching session, i want to point out the fact that she has not come to see my mum for a month. Ok? THAT speaks alot.
seriously, i don't even want to deal with people of that level, ok? It's just plain stupidity and dim-witted of her to even mention that last sentence. GOSH.....friends of mine, share my outrageousness.
then my dad intelligently answered her, "So you want me to put up a show and cry infront of her la? Sorry hor, i'm not that kind of person. I whisper things into her ear is between her and me. It has nothing to do with you people. when we care for her, do you see? No? then...?"
HAHAHA...i would have doused her in verbal fuel and set her alight with words. Thanks to yvonne for letting me "embrace my inner self."
seriously, all these are so unecessary and my dad wants me to tell my aunts this, "someone has been putting fire on my dad, this is so uncivilised and unecessary."
my uncle actually had the balls to tell all my mum's side relatives of my dad's apparent shady past. HAH! my dad has no shady past, it's all bullocks. it was a simple misunderstanding. To stand on a selfish point of view, i don't care about matters of the past. Whatever is in the past, remains there.
Gosh...dense,ludicrous and ignorant fools. It's like she was back in the Dark Ages, where the church was the answer to everything - where the sun revolved around earth and when the earth was flat. Haha.
Those smart enough will get the double entendre in the last sentence.
I'm not an atheist.
I'm just a-religious.
And yes, i believe that the both of them can be mutually exclusive.
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For those who don't already know, there are fairly legitimate reasons why my dad and i have decided to put my mum in a nursing home. If you're really interested and truly care about my mum, please do not hesitate to reach me at 91507439 for clarifications before judging us.
We are not on American Idol, please hold in that Simon for a moment. We'll appreciate it very much.
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I'm not perfect, but I wish that people can take a little more responsiblity with their words.
Since you all talk about my dad's past, then why don't you tell us straight that you don't like us? Ridiculous hypocrites.
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