Life Expectancy: 65 Years
Claud
An avid collector of your hopes and worries, a romantic at heart.
She thanks her fairies, for blessing her with people who know compassion down to an art.
For accepting her for who she is, who never fails to turn up,
in times of need as well as happiness, or just there for a loving hug.
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
Day 12
Day 12 since my mum entered the hospital...she's still unconscious....
Guanyu and Mr. Sim visited today, which was a real surprised (and touching event as well) because i never expected it....like in a million years. but i really appreciated the gesture and well wishes from lala and qabir as well. Thanks guys!
Meanwhile, i had a fight with my dad. really disappointed in him and how he's handling things. My mum's staying in the ICU and it's not cheap. 1 week is about 6k and my mum will probably be in there for 2 months at least. You can do the math.
So i called my mum's insurance agent, also a long-term fren of my mum, for some help if possible that she can do to help my dad ease the financial burden. She told me that the insurance may cover most of it, but the first 3k that is not covered will be covered by the company.
That's where the fight started. I asked my dad to email the company regarding the policy for employee's falling ill while working. He refused and said that he don't want to ask people for these kinda things. He then said that he rather my mum get well than bother about this kind of stuff. i mean, even if my mum do get better, the bill isn't going to disappear just like that. He even questioned me further saying, "you care about mummy's health or money huh?"
it's as if that money no longer exists now that my mum is sick. Ridiculous.....still insult me say what i talk big and all those stuff.
i understand that my dad is going through alot. but i somehow get the feeling that he is never there for me when i needed him - my mum was, and not that she is gone, i really don't know who to turn to anymore. It's in this kind of situation where i miss my mum the most.
everyone wants me to be strong to be there for my dad, but who's going to be there for me when i fall as well?
mummy...i miss you so much....
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