i think shopping releases endorphins...hahahaha...so does warm milk and crackers: according to huishan

it's like shopping with nat is ever so fun!although i know i blabber about being materialistic and stuff. however, in some sense, shopping to me is never about obtaining something. rather, it's a way of rewarding myself. what is the difference between being materialistic and just purchasing? i think being materialistic is overly-emphasized on the brands, the need to be the most fashionable and most stylish. yet, shopping is just getting something you need or getting that dress/jeans that you know you need.

yah...in anyway, nat and i spent like 2-3 hrs at zara picking out clothes...hahahaha...and i ended up only getting a organic cotton tanktop....which i LOVE. although at that moment i bought it on impulse, but after that i'm really glad that i got it.

oh yah, nat got a reall cute retro dress which i think, now, suits her alot...it's just very nat. hahaha....and seriously, i envy the shorts she bought, not only was it nice looking, it was also made in japan. like how rare is that?!

overall...it was a great shopping trip. although the tendons in my legs are like super pain and all, but after getting the stuffos that i always wanted....it seems all the more worth it. plus!i love hopped earrings...hahaha so at wisma we saw this shop that sold alot of accessories and i say this really nice intricate hoop earrings that shimmer in the light. hahaha...i let my mum see she tot inside got put small crystals lor. but the workmanship really made that pair unique...besides that pair of earrings, i also got my long-awaited pair of dark jeans from dorothy perkins for 43bucks only!hahahaha...nice deal right, and the cut, material and everything was like damn good.

hahaha...and i bought another pair of heels. as usual, the shoe has a bow (i'm a sucker for them). this pair fit like a glove...really, the one on display was the right FIT, not size, but fit. and it was really comfy. being isetan, for the shoe to only cost like 15.90 = BUY LA!

it's been a while since i've bought something that i really like for myself. given the last time was with xinyi, vann and nat when we shopped for my couz's wedding. however, this time, it's my own savings...it makes it all the more worth it.

i'm not an overly indulgent person. however, i believe in spending good money for good things - that is shopping to me.then yet again, does everything really need a philosophy?hahahaha....shopping is just shopping. besides, i never get to buy anything i like last time.

anyway, after trying so many clothing, i realised i need to lose some weight and tone up. it's not to fit into the skinny clothes or what, but rather, when you tone up, the clothes you wear will also look better. and when you feel better, any clothing you wear will be branded - be it $19 or $199.

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对于男人的想法和作为，我都不知所措。感觉上好像是从女校毕业的一样，对男人的基本常识都一窍不通。是不是有一点失败?

我真的需要去了解他们的（愚昧）想法吗？但是问题不在于我需不需要去为那些男人上一堂基本常识课，而是我为何一定要了解他们不可？

可能是因为我从来没有谈恋爱的经验， 也没有被“追”的感觉。

所以我的疑心匆匆， 总是在想着说倘若我有了男朋友，生活一定会很快了吧。

但如今这想法好像缺少点了什么。

虽然我心里的期待是那么强烈，但理性和耐心就仿佛在默默地劝我不要急 - 时间未到。

我还不知道，其实在生日时候男人是没有给生日礼物的习惯。

搭档或好兄弟都一样这么对待。

都说了嘛， 我真得很不懂男人是怎么想的。

对我来说啦，生日收礼物，是一种福气也是朋友对你的感恩的一种表达之一。

因为这样，在生日那一天没有收到礼物，那些男人不会很沮丧吗？

嗨。。。他们真是他妈的烦。但我不否认，男人也有他们的好处。

这些性别的争执是不会停的， 因为男人有男人的本性，女人也有女人的本能，所以如果男人和女人可以错在一起谈，那么世界干吗还要有性别呢？但有时候，要了解对方，真得很苦恼。。。 。。。

单身一生， 想一想，说不定也会是一个很不错的生活。