hahahaha....kris xinyi, although my erm..."hypothetical situation" didn't really come true, but hey, i'm still grining and happy (i guess that's what it feels like huh....^^)

besides that point, today's dinner was as fun as ever, crapping, bitching, emo-ing all rolled into 3 hours. hahahaha....i really miss those long random chats where we like talk like there's no tml. anyway, hope we do it soon yah my fellow capricorns!!

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have you ever shared so many common interests with someone before....then have you ever shared so many common interests with THREE people before? it's damn interesting to like talk about how you like some things in some way, and don't like things in some way etc....like both darren and me can't stand the rice facing away from us and chris and me have to like seperate our dishes on the plate before we can start eating...hahahaha, and i found another wacko who reads greek AND egyptian mythology...and also to remember that both vonk and i hate chillies to the core (although i'm deviating that to erm.....suit someone's tastes)lol.....even chris,darren and me have similar sleeping habits....

it's interesting to find like little commonalitiesand although it may sound weird, but i like that feeling and bask in that kinda of trivial things. like i have many close friends like nat and xinyi who like guide and sorta "teach" me how to handle situations better...i handled situations as well without them. it's cool to share really similar things - even like the same way of handling situations and thinking.

to me, such an opportunity to enjoy these similarities never fail to lighten my heart and gives you a feeling of connection. it's always nice to connect with someone

have some too....have some connections with anyone, i guess the hurdle is to not be afraid of indulging yourself in similarities with each other. don't be afraid of letting yourself be part of another person too because the feeling of knowing how the both of you clique is indescribable.

which is also a reason why love exists as long as time....it's the fulfilling and insatiable feeling of wanting and needing to connect with another person at a deeper level. small things like eating habits and reading preferences just spark off the little "warm" things we feel in our hearts.

opposite your dinner table, you can always tell if someone is enjoying that other person's company or not....

just looking at a couple, you can tell how much they love each other through their body language, the way they complete each other's sentences and they bad habits that they always speak of each other....just listening to them makes your heart warm. somehow, you want that kinda of feeling yuorself too...